Anal Finger Play

 

Why many people choose to experiment with anal play.

Anal play for women and anal play with men is a sexual act that feels good and very erotic, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. There are many nerve endings in the rectum, particularly around the opening of the anus that a lot of people find pleasurable when stimulated. Men often love the super tightness of a woman’s anus. If you've tried it, you like it, and if you haven't, you're going to. Anal play can be an exciting and interesting experience for couples. But before you begin your backside fun, ensure that you protect yourself if you're not in a monogamous relationship.

Anal play – whether you’re having anal sex or using anal play toys or your fingers – can be intensely intimate. The taboo of enjoying a so-called ‘prohibited’ activity with your partner can be super exciting and just what you need to turn up the heat in your sex life!

It's best if your first few experiences are limited to finger play. Before you begin, take a bath to get clean and relaxed. Open your partner up by massaging and being playful. Introduce anal play by lubricating a finger and playing with the area immediately around the anus before moving toward the opening. Slowly and gently add a little stimulation without entering. Ask your partner if he is ready for you to enter. If you get permission, slowly and sensually insert one finger.

Anal fingering can be a great way to introduce new sensations in your sexual repertoire. The anus is packed with tons of pleasurable nerve endings – but many of them receive pain as well. Anal fingering can be extremely pleasurable or painful, if you don’t do it right. Never tried it before? Here’s how.

You may already know this, but there’s no mistaking the importance that a good amount of lube for anal play or any kind of anal sex – including fingering. Don’t try to use spit, saliva or oil as a lube – it’s just not going to work. Instead, make sure you have a bottle of water based or silicone based lubricant on hand before you ever get started. Then, start with one finger. Once your lover seems to be enjoying it and is well lubed up, you can work on introducing more fingers, one at a time.

For your lover to enjoy the sensations you’re giving during anal fingering, they have to be really, really turned on first. Even with plenty of lube, you’re still going to have a difficult time inserting your finger if their anal muscles are tight and not relaxed. So spend some time getting them turned on first, through foreplay and oral sex. Oral sex is an excellent precursor to anal fingering, simply because it is such an erotic activity.

Go slow and use a "come hither" motion. Lube your finger up and slip it slowly into your lover’s anus while you’re performing oral sex on them. They will be more apt to enjoy the feeling than shy away from it, simply because what you were doing before already felt so good!

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