Anal Sex Guide

Anal sex is something a lot of us aren't comfortable talking about, either because we think it would hurt or just because it's a bit of a taboo subject.

Many women are curious about anal sex, but are scared about comfort and safety issues. Some women who are unwilling to try anal sex with their current partner may have had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past. Anal sex is one of the many pleasurable acts we can perform with our bodies, but it often carries with it apprehension or fear. The anus is a sensitive orifice with thousands of nerve endings, which can deliver both pleasure and pain. The trick to enjoying anal sex is knowing how to relax, communicate with your partner, and gradually build up to full penetration.

One in three men regularly have anal sex. If the woman is willing, her partner can live out his domination fantasy. From a physical point of view, Anal sex for men is extremely satisfying. The anal sphincter is a lot tighter than the vagina so the penis is squeezed and the pleasure is more intense for him. However, anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic. If you’re considering anal sex with your partner, safety and preparation are paramount. You’ll want to keep these basic anal sex tips.

The anus is a sensitive area, in order to enjoy anal stimulation, you need to use a lubricant because, unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t have its own natural lubricant. Start off slowly. Begin by caressing her anus so that she's relaxed and aroused. Inserting a finger prior to penetration can also help relax the anal sphincter, making thrusts easier. Caressing a woman’s body can create an intimate connection and build sensual anticipation that leads to increasing her sexual desires. One of the easiest ways to give a pre-anal massage is to have the woman kneeling on her hands and knees. This position gives the man easy access to her backside for her increased pleasure and provides him with an erotic visual. Spread massage glide or lubricant over her back and work your way down towards her buttocks. This can help her to unwind and heighten sensations around her anus.

When a woman is ready for anal fingering to commence, good communication skills are essential. Slowly, gently ease the finger (covered by a finger cot and plenty of lube) into the anus and wait for it to pucker over the finger before moving it in any further. When your finger is in to the first knuckle, make sure to check-in with your partner. How does this feel? Remind her to breathe slowly and deeply as this can also affect the anal muscles. Tensing the anus and then letting go is a good way of learning to relax it.

There are anal sex risks, it can't be stressed enough that penetration should not be rough, or it can lead to cuts or bleeding. Tell your partner if you feel any discomfort. Unprotected anal sex can lead to sexually transmitted diseases. The anal wall is very fragile and porous, so it’s essential that your partner wears a condom. Also, avoid going straight from anal penetration to vaginal penetration, because the bacteria in the rectum can cause vaginal infections. Ask your partner to wash thoroughly or change your condom.

It can be performed in several anal sex positions so you can experience a variety of sensations! Doggy style wins the majority of votes. In this position, he can also stimulate your clitoris for more pleasure...a combination of anal and clitoral stimulation may be a pleasant surprise! This is an awesome position for when you are feeling wild! There's something very primal about banging from behind that brings out the animal in even the most mild-mannered guy or dildo wielding chick.

This is an awesome position to bring out some fun sex toys. You can do all sorts of things in this position. If you want to have clitoral stimulation many vibrators will do the trick because you can straddle it and it will not come between you and your lover... unless you want to share the buzzzzzzzzzzz by pushing the vibrator back so you both get a dose. Feel free to bring out a more powerful vibrator like the Adam And Eve Magic Wand for this fiesta!

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