Anal Toy Play

Many people shy away from the idea of anal sex. Maybe they think that only gay men enjoy anal sex and use anal sex toys. They thought that there are only male anal sex toys or anal sex toys for men or what they call – gay sex toys. Maybe they've never considered the anus as an erotic area, or they feel it's somehow icky. Or maybe they just have no idea how to actually do it. Whatever the case is, rest assured that anyone - that means whether they're straight, gay, men, women or couples - can enjoy anal sex.

Anal play can be a great experience for both sexes. The anus is rich in nerve endings so great pleasure can be achieved from anal stimulation.  Unfortunately, many people's experience with anal play has not been positive because of lack of lubrication, lack of patience or by using the wrong sex toy. This article will teach you about the different types of anal sex toys for beginners and how to use them so your next venture into anal play will be a great one.

For first time users of anal sex toys, it is important to remember to shop sex toys wisely because flexible type toys may be hard to insert as you may be tensing and inadvertently keeping your sphincter muscle tight and closed, not allowing the toy to enter. A lot of lovers are discovering about the joys of anal sex toys, either as part of foreplay or during sex. But if neither you nor your partner have tried anal toys, you may be a little confused about exactly what those funny-shaped things are and how to use them. Anal sex toys fall into three main categories: anal beads, anal plugs, and prostate massagers or vibrators.

You want an anal bead that is one continuous piece of rubber, silicone or TPR. Anal beads like this are easier to clean and the materials are firm yet soft to make for a more pleasurable experience. A good example of these beads are jelly anal beads with 10 beads that start at only a quarter-inch diameter. Of course there are beads on actual strings, and even vibrating anal beads that light up and flash in different colors -- you have to see these work to believe them! And if you’re worried that these toys might get lost “up there,” relax: anal beads come with handles.

Butt plugs are designed exclusively for anal play. You can get them made of jelly, rubber, glass, TPR, silicone, metal or wood. This anal sex toy is designed to be put into a rectum and to stay there. This provides a great deal of pleasure to many people. Butt plugs can vibrate or not, and many of them come with a suction-cup base for solo play. Then there are plugs that are more like a combination of anal beads and butt plugs. For a mind-bending sensation, you can also get anal plugs that vibrate.

One For The Boys: Prostate Massagers and vibrators: Oh baby, oh baby! If your man’s goal is a dynamite orgasm that leaves him quivering in pleasure (and whose goal isn’t?), a prostate vibrator will sure get it done! Prostate or P-spot stimulator wand-type vibrators are basically shaped like a finger with the tip crooked in a “come here” gesture – just about the same shape as a woman’s G-spot vibrator.

All you need is the desire to do it. In fact, anal sex can be a wonderful way to spice things up in the bedroom. In fact, those who practice this sex act will tell that you that it feels great ... at least once you get past your initial reservations. Why? This area of the body is rich with sensory nerve endings and pleasure points, which can lead to incredible orgasms.

These days, anal sex and anal sex toys have lost the taboo status that kept couples from discovering the fun and pleasure of this special, natural act. Sure, it takes a little practice and a sense of adventure, but we think you’ll find that “going in the out door” is worth the trouble!

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Anal Oral Sex

Once thought taboo, anal sex is now more mainstream than ever. So are more women having anal sex these days, or are they just more comfortable admitting that they do?

Men and women have always enjoyed having anal sex. Anal sex for men is just natural. There are a lot of anal sex positions already, especially gay anal sex. Generosity, I'm talking about a specific kind of generosity: giving and receiving oral sex. For all our sexual sophistication, this act still has the power to make us squirmy. People either want more of it or don't want it at all or want to receive but not give it or -- you get the picture. Some people engage in oral sex more often than sexual intercourse. Some view oral sex as casual and risk-free, while others use oral and anal sex as a way to technically preserve their virginity.

Although times are changing, some men and women have misgivings about both giving and receiving oral sex. Not all couples are comfortable with it and may need some encouragement in this area of lovemaking. Other couples already enjoy oral sex, but they may be able to use new information to improve their knowledge. So here are some oral sex tips!

Analingus is defined as oral stimulation of the anus. Some people call it rimming or anal-oral sex. Most people are either for it or against it. Very few people are neutral.

Rimming for the guys like having their perineum massaged or caressed or rubbed during oral sex or intercourse, they love it. Unlike intercourse, in which you're equal participants, oral sex is usually something one partner gives while the other receives. It's the giving part -- and the corresponding power to withhold -- that makes oral sex unique. It's sufficiently socially acceptable that people feel okay about asking for it -- as opposed to say, anal sex. But oral sex is still considered enough of an extra that folks can't complain too loudly if their spouses won't partake very often. Since, it's human nature to want what's hard to get, it's a small surprise that this one little act can produce so many tiffs.

How to give oral sex? Giving great oral sex means knowing your partner's likes and dislikes which is made much easier through communication. This may seem like an awkward thing to discuss, but done in the right way, it can simply turn into talking dirty to one another and make things even hotter. Saying things like "I love when you flick your tongue like that," or "I love the way you feel in my mouth, do you like when I do this... or this... baby?" can make things hotter as well as informative.

Oral sex for women have different options, it’s how you and your man want to finish. Your man could masturbate while you are rimming him. Men who respond well to rimming say that it really increases the intensity of their orgasms. Your man may want you to bring your mouth back to his penis to finish him. If so, you can still use your lubed finger to rub him there while he is reaching his climax.

Figuring out oral sex isn't brain surgery: it's pretty uncomplicated, and doing it "right" for a partner just has to do with listening, being responsive, and being willing to experiment, just like any other kind of sex.

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Anal Sex Guide

Anal sex is something a lot of us aren't comfortable talking about, either because we think it would hurt or just because it's a bit of a taboo subject.

Many women are curious about anal sex, but are scared about comfort and safety issues. Some women who are unwilling to try anal sex with their current partner may have had a bad experience with an impatient or ignorant lover in the past. Anal sex is one of the many pleasurable acts we can perform with our bodies, but it often carries with it apprehension or fear. The anus is a sensitive orifice with thousands of nerve endings, which can deliver both pleasure and pain. The trick to enjoying anal sex is knowing how to relax, communicate with your partner, and gradually build up to full penetration.

One in three men regularly have anal sex. If the woman is willing, her partner can live out his domination fantasy. From a physical point of view, Anal sex for men is extremely satisfying. The anal sphincter is a lot tighter than the vagina so the penis is squeezed and the pleasure is more intense for him. However, anal sex can be very pleasurable for women because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are actually closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and quite possibly orgasmic. If you’re considering anal sex with your partner, safety and preparation are paramount. You’ll want to keep these basic anal sex tips.

The anus is a sensitive area, in order to enjoy anal stimulation, you need to use a lubricant because, unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t have its own natural lubricant. Start off slowly. Begin by caressing her anus so that she's relaxed and aroused. Inserting a finger prior to penetration can also help relax the anal sphincter, making thrusts easier. Caressing a woman’s body can create an intimate connection and build sensual anticipation that leads to increasing her sexual desires. One of the easiest ways to give a pre-anal massage is to have the woman kneeling on her hands and knees. This position gives the man easy access to her backside for her increased pleasure and provides him with an erotic visual. Spread massage glide or lubricant over her back and work your way down towards her buttocks. This can help her to unwind and heighten sensations around her anus.

When a woman is ready for anal fingering to commence, good communication skills are essential. Slowly, gently ease the finger (covered by a finger cot and plenty of lube) into the anus and wait for it to pucker over the finger before moving it in any further. When your finger is in to the first knuckle, make sure to check-in with your partner. How does this feel? Remind her to breathe slowly and deeply as this can also affect the anal muscles. Tensing the anus and then letting go is a good way of learning to relax it.

There are anal sex risks, it can't be stressed enough that penetration should not be rough, or it can lead to cuts or bleeding. Tell your partner if you feel any discomfort. Unprotected anal sex can lead to sexually transmitted diseases. The anal wall is very fragile and porous, so it’s essential that your partner wears a condom. Also, avoid going straight from anal penetration to vaginal penetration, because the bacteria in the rectum can cause vaginal infections. Ask your partner to wash thoroughly or change your condom.

It can be performed in several anal sex positions so you can experience a variety of sensations! Doggy style wins the majority of votes. In this position, he can also stimulate your clitoris for more pleasure...a combination of anal and clitoral stimulation may be a pleasant surprise! This is an awesome position for when you are feeling wild! There's something very primal about banging from behind that brings out the animal in even the most mild-mannered guy or dildo wielding chick.

This is an awesome position to bring out some fun sex toys. You can do all sorts of things in this position. If you want to have clitoral stimulation many vibrators will do the trick because you can straddle it and it will not come between you and your lover... unless you want to share the buzzzzzzzzzzz by pushing the vibrator back so you both get a dose. Feel free to bring out a more powerful vibrator like the Adam And Eve Magic Wand for this fiesta!

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Anal Finger Play

 

Why many people choose to experiment with anal play.

Anal play for women and anal play with men is a sexual act that feels good and very erotic, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. There are many nerve endings in the rectum, particularly around the opening of the anus that a lot of people find pleasurable when stimulated. Men often love the super tightness of a woman’s anus. If you've tried it, you like it, and if you haven't, you're going to. Anal play can be an exciting and interesting experience for couples. But before you begin your backside fun, ensure that you protect yourself if you're not in a monogamous relationship.

Anal play – whether you’re having anal sex or using anal play toys or your fingers – can be intensely intimate. The taboo of enjoying a so-called ‘prohibited’ activity with your partner can be super exciting and just what you need to turn up the heat in your sex life!

It's best if your first few experiences are limited to finger play. Before you begin, take a bath to get clean and relaxed. Open your partner up by massaging and being playful. Introduce anal play by lubricating a finger and playing with the area immediately around the anus before moving toward the opening. Slowly and gently add a little stimulation without entering. Ask your partner if he is ready for you to enter. If you get permission, slowly and sensually insert one finger.

Anal fingering can be a great way to introduce new sensations in your sexual repertoire. The anus is packed with tons of pleasurable nerve endings – but many of them receive pain as well. Anal fingering can be extremely pleasurable or painful, if you don’t do it right. Never tried it before? Here’s how.

You may already know this, but there’s no mistaking the importance that a good amount of lube for anal play or any kind of anal sex – including fingering. Don’t try to use spit, saliva or oil as a lube – it’s just not going to work. Instead, make sure you have a bottle of water based or silicone based lubricant on hand before you ever get started. Then, start with one finger. Once your lover seems to be enjoying it and is well lubed up, you can work on introducing more fingers, one at a time.

For your lover to enjoy the sensations you’re giving during anal fingering, they have to be really, really turned on first. Even with plenty of lube, you’re still going to have a difficult time inserting your finger if their anal muscles are tight and not relaxed. So spend some time getting them turned on first, through foreplay and oral sex. Oral sex is an excellent precursor to anal fingering, simply because it is such an erotic activity.

Go slow and use a "come hither" motion. Lube your finger up and slip it slowly into your lover’s anus while you’re performing oral sex on them. They will be more apt to enjoy the feeling than shy away from it, simply because what you were doing before already felt so good!

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All About Sex Positions

When it comes to sex, we operate under the motto "go big or go home." Here's how to take your sex moves from "oh" to "oooh."

Whether you're a sexpert or a beginner, like it mild or wild — we're betting you'll learn a thing or two. Best sex positions?

Frankly, the missionary sex position is one of the good sex positions but it least likely to bring a woman to climax. But there is a subtle adjustment you can make that can increase your chances of having an orgasm: the coital alignment technique, or CAT. Have your partner move his entire body up about two inches. Your partner's pubic bone will rest on top of yours so that the base of his penis presses on your clitoris. This position provides continuous stimulation of your clitoris during intercourse, increasing your chances of having an orgasm.

The New Woman-on-Top. This is typically the best sex position for a woman to reach orgasm because she can control the angle and speed of penetration. But the odds of her getting there can definitely be improved. By tinkering just a bit with your favorite sex positions, you can turn intercourse into a never-fail orgasm generator for both of you — without either of you using your hands.

Why not try standing up? Almost nothing makes you feel as overwhelmed by lust as a quickie against a wall. You know, try some fun sex positions!

Men are aroused by visual stimuli, so a nonverbal come-on can make him hungry. Toy with him by bending slowly to pick up something in a short skirt or blow-drying your hair in jeans and a bra. Act like you don't know he's watching — it'll arouse the hell out of him.

Morning sex is hot. Challenge yourselves to have sex every day for a month. More frequent encounters rev your libido, culminating in a big domin-O effect with each session.

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